Saturday, October 28, 2006

Men and mid life





My sister Jalet and I were playing with a web site that can tell if you as a writer are male or female...just by looking at the words you use.
http://www.bookblog.net/gender/genie.html
So i gave it a try, only i tried writing like Justin Writes to see if i could capture that war style of the writing man - child in my house. here is mine... acting like Justin... amazingly the web site said i was a man writing.


Boy without a Name

Once upon a journey through the Vietnam jungle, I met a boy without a name. Along with the 20 other guys in the platoon it didnt seem to matter what he called himself, we just called him "Sonny."

Sonny was alone in the war and not a year past the age of eight. D.J who held the position of Platoon Captain, didn’t care much for Sonny. He reguarded Sonny as an annoyance and a way to get us all killed.>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

that was the Sample writing to try and match Justin’s writing

so below is my sister writing as herself and it said that yes indeed she was a feminie writer and you could tell by the floofy words... and this is the conversation that followed....

BY Jalet
When the morning light first broke the skyline, there was frost lying crunchy on the grass. It came to me in that crisp moment that nothing had changed for centuries and that nothing really was ever the same at all. I had cause for reflection this morning. I was officially forty-five years of age. Probably finished with over half of my life, and yet it seemed to me that perhaps for the first time I actually liked, and possibly even understood my life. Seemed sad that it would be nearning the end.

Jalet Farrell

this is my response to why the writing was femine and not Masculine...

Oh... that is because a man thinks he understands his life at 18 when his whole life revolves around sex.... you mentioned the words "45" and "understanding" pretty much all in the same sentence... and well as you know... from 45 on... your feminine beautiful perspective on life is in check... this is where guys have thier midlife crisis and outwordly show us that they just figured out it wasnt ALL about the sex it was about the journey and it scares the crap outta them... and they do stupid things to try to prove that they werent wrong after all, hence fast cars and fast women... and the Divorce rate that is so high at this age bracket...It's an ego thing....

The fact that you used words that the writer understood simply to be penned by a woman were so great. it was not an ego thing it was a heart issue... i dont think it was really about calculating the femine and masculine adjetives... it was all about the NOUN (45) and the VERB(understanding) link.

i love your crunchy frosty life... and darling... your life is not half over,,, your are just beginning from the crossroads.



Things to Ponder.....

4 Comments:

At Saturday, October 28, 2006, Blogger Lanelle said...

Well, in fascination and curiousity I took three of my past blog posts (truly mine and not quotes) and it said...

Female Score: 420
Male Score: 728

The Gender Genie thinks the author of this passage is: male!

So, altogether fascinating. Proves to me what unique creations we are, in that we can't necessarily be pegged by algorithms. very fun!

 
At Monday, October 30, 2006, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Who cares what goes on in the head, it is life from the heart that spends at the throne.

I really wasn't waxing on and on about my aging, it was just the free flow of what a few years back would have been pen to empty paper. Except when I am applying my make up I don't even think about my age. Ahhh, the benefits of having 3 younger men in you life to keep your heart rate up huh?

I love the life of the boy in the glass. Laura looked in and said "Auntie Kary's house always looks like such a fun place to live. Welll...except for the fire thing maybe....". Life, who knew it would be such a ride huh? Who knew my experiment with words would end up on someone like my amazing sisters BLOG?
Jalet

 
At Wednesday, November 01, 2006, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Okay, that gender genie dealio was really fun. Apparently, I am a male writer trapped in this supermodel's body, which is kinky fun. And what's really weird is that I also submitted one of my male writer friend's posts - someone who is vastly intelligent, way more than me - and he came up female.

Which of COURSE leads us to the obvious conclusion that women are considerably more intelligent than men, and that I write too much about boobs and sex. Well, and penises.

Hi, Kary my sweet.

 
At Wednesday, January 10, 2007, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Contrary to popular belief, all men around the age of 45 do not fall into a midlife crisis this is centered on sex. Real men , at that age begin to ask questions about their feelings. Priorities of the heart are rearranged in a way that will bring hope rather than despair, forgiveness rather than condemnation, and joy rather than heaviness. That was my experience. And I am a man!

 

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